I can't believe it. My current housemate, has deliberately opened snail-mail addressed to me (for the second time). This is after I had asked her not to. I feel horrible (violated is an over-strong word, it does apply to trust though). It's such a breach of privacy, shows an incredible lack of respect, no concern for privacy, and is probably the rudest thing anyone has ever done to me. (Not necessarily the meanest). I'm majorly annoyed and upset now.